{"id":18,"date":"2020-10-23T13:18:05","date_gmt":"2020-10-23T13:18:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/resumade.ind.in\/blog\/?p=18"},"modified":"2020-10-23T13:18:05","modified_gmt":"2020-10-23T13:18:05","slug":"the-bad-boss-a-monster-who-makes-you-hate-your-job","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/resumade.ind.in\/blog\/?p=18","title":{"rendered":"The Bad boss: A monster who makes you hate your job"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>How many of us Hate our job,and even worse\nhate the boss?&nbsp; Well the fact that you\nare here reading this article says it all.&nbsp;\nI am sure that boss of yours would be worse than a blood sucking monster\nfor you now, the Monday blues feeling wouldn&#8217;t be restricted just for Monday,\ninstead the entire week would feel the same. Hang in there because you are not\nalone,&nbsp; and this is felt by a whole bunch\nof people, does it feel better knowing you are not the only sufferer? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We all know having a good boss can make you\nfall in love with your job,&nbsp; but a bad\none would have the ability to ruin your career goals. Your boss could be a bad\nteam leader, bad manager, a poor communicator or even worse listener,\naggressive bully,&nbsp; bad pay master or\nsimply could love picking favourites. If your boss has even one of the above\nmentioned qualities, he could easily qualify to be called a blood sucking\nmonster and leaves you with no other option&nbsp;\nbut to take a call either to fix it or get rid of him. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You may either&nbsp;\nchoose to live with a bad boss, ignore him, interact with him only when\nneeded, quietly take all the lemons he throws at you and keep going with your\nwork, putting your best efforts and keep the money coming in. This may keep\ntesting your patience almost every single day, or u may just get used to\ndealing with a new situation everyday. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On the other hand, if you are a good\ncommunicator you could choose to talk it out with your boss, explain him about\nsituation and difficulty to deal with him., clarify the misunderstandings if\nany,&nbsp; understand what he expects out of\nyou, explain your work delivery methods and try to create a more civilised and\nlikeable work place for yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At times it is also possible that your boss is\nnot a bad person, he could be a bad manager with poor leadership skills,who\nfeels his ways and methods are empowering the employees but instead is only\npushing you to your lowest productive self, in this case you could reach out to\nyour boss, go to a lesser formal place like your office cafe and have an informal\nconversation with your boss. Break the ice by talking on topics of his\ninterest, talk about sports,movies, art, books or anything that interests him,\nstrike the cord at the right place, get him comfortable with you and then bring\nup your issues with him in a light and friendly manner. Have a heart to heart\nconversation with your boss, obviously keeping your mind also sharp and\nattentive not letting it forget that he is &#8220;The Boss&#8221;. If your boss\nis soft at heart with a sense of compassion towards people around him, this\nwould definitely work in your favor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The last and the most crucial way to mend your\nissues with your boss, would be approaching the Human resources of your\norganization. Be very sure before reaching up the line. This could impact your\nwork in two extreme ways, either your boss may hate you even more or may change\nfor the better. But as a last resort this is worth giving a try.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But what if you can&#8217;t choose to accept your\nboss and live with his ways of working or a good talk with your boss with all\nthose explanations does not work?&nbsp; Then\nthe only option you are left would be to quit,&nbsp;\nto quit that job and start afresh. This one could be the most difficult\nway to deal with it, but also could be a way that would open doors to more\nopportunities, like it&#8217;s said &#8221; <strong><em>the best decisions are the ones you take\nonce you step out of your comfort zone&#8221; <\/em><\/strong>So maybe it&#8217;s time for you\nto step out of your comfort zone and build a strong resume, the one that\ninstantly throws the spotlight on you amidst the numerous candidates around\nyou. Learn some new skills, start looking for something new, a better job and a\npromising future at a new place, surrounded by like minded and positive people\nwho help you climb the ladder of success. Take up new challenges and you will\nrealise that the beauty and joy of starting something afresh with your\npassion&nbsp; and hard work would be something\nunmatched and unimaginable. For all you know, you might just get the most\namazing boss who would strive you to soar new heights each day. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In my opinion instead of settling down with a\nbad boss, choose ways to sort your issues, choose any way you like, but don&#8217;t\nlet yourself be victimized. Choose stepping out of your comfort zone to\nexperience a jump in your career growth. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How many of us Hate our job,and even worse hate the boss?&nbsp; Well the fact that you are here reading this article says it all.&nbsp; I am sure that boss of yours would be worse than a blood sucking monster for you now, the Monday blues feeling wouldn&#8217;t be restricted just for Monday, instead the&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":19,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/resumade.ind.in\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/resumade.ind.in\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/resumade.ind.in\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/resumade.ind.in\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/resumade.ind.in\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=18"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/resumade.ind.in\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20,"href":"https:\/\/resumade.ind.in\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18\/revisions\/20"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/resumade.ind.in\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/19"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/resumade.ind.in\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=18"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/resumade.ind.in\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=18"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/resumade.ind.in\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=18"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}